Being a stripper may look like a fun way to feel sexy while bringing in the big bucks, but there’s a lot about the profession that you may not know about. When you enter a strip club, you walk straight to a front row sit and sit back to enjoy the show.  All you want is a lusty few hours to relax and forget any problems.  But, aren’t you a bit curious about the private life of erotic dancers?  What is underneath all the make-up and the sexy outfits? Are they really confident women in charge of their life?  How do they behave when customers are not around?  Let me help you think about it.

A few weeks ago, I went with my chicks group to a strip club.  We got to talk to some of the strippers and we learn a lot about “the business”.  And I learn something very important, than not many people takes in consideration, Strippers are smarter than what you think.  They do a version of what many girls do on Friday night when they go to a bar and get drunk and dance nasty to the guys, but strippers do it with one end: make money.  Many of them come from foreign countries searching for a better life.  As Melissa told me, it is not something they want to do forever, but for a few years to help them spring their life into a better one.

As for looking hot and sexy they required to take good care of their bodies.  Who want to pay to see a girl with cellulite and fat jiggling from their arms?  Strippers workout for long hours on the pole,  giving them a lot of strength and an excellent aerobic exercise, to be able to dance sexy in front of a bunch of strangers.  As for the clothes, well, they are like any other dancers who know how important the whole presentation package is.  Erotic dancers need the right clothes to take off and the shoes to complement their outfit.  And you have seen those heels; they are not a piece of cake!

When the dancers are away from home, they worry all the time about their love one.  No everyone knows what they do for a living.  The family may think they are away studying or even working in some conventional job.  Many of the girls have kids that they need to live behind to be able to give them a better future.  Would you be able to do anything like this to feed your child?
It takes a lot of guts to walk in a room full of people watching you take your clothes, looking confident and beautiful while wearing sexy lingerie. Definitely not a glamorous lives as you may think.

Today, I am going to finish with my tale of a night at the strip club.  You may remember we were drinking and watching the strip shows.  Well, let me tell you, the open bar promotion is a great idea.  Drinks kept coming and we were drinking them fast.  We were looking for more fun, and then is when things got hotter.
The music was contagious; we wanted to dance so badly and we did just that.  We were dancing very sexy and shaking our booty right next to the stage.  And we were getting even more attention than the dancers! Dancing in a very erotic way with each other got all eyes on us.  How did we feel been the center of attention? , great!  Some of my girls got clients wanting more from them, which of course did not happen. The dancers where topless and we were fully clothed and we still got the crowed going.  We started to encourage the strippers: “Shake it, baby”, “To the pole”, “Take it off”, while we kept doing out thing.   Oh boy, we were more aggressive than the men!  Other strippers and dancers that where there came to the other side of the stage to also encourage their fellow girls.  And the strippers on stage got wilder!  It was amazing to see how strong their bodies are.  Some dancers got on all four and they were moving their pelvis rhythmically simulating sex.  Others moved to dance on the pole, and it was fascinating and scary at the same time to see how good performers they were.  Upside down, spinning, and even one leg hold were part of their pole dance routine.  Tips kept coming and drinks kept flowing.
After we calm down some, I went to speak to Melisa.  I ask her how it feels to dance on the pole and how long it takes to be able to hold to the pole.  She was very honest and said that is scary at the beginning.  They are afraid to hurt themselves while practicing their erotic acrobatic dance.  And even a stripper fractured her foot during practice.  To be able to do a simple pole dance they need to practice a lot for about a month.  They felt down a lot and learn how to angle their bodies for the best support.  It is not as easy as it looks.  Melisa also commented on how important your appearance while performing a striptease is.  You need to look the part.  When they performed in costumes they are fulfilling fantasies that many men would like to do with their partners, but are denied.  And taking care of your hair and makeup also helps to the mystique of the exoticism of being a stripper.  Very easy tips we can all use, even if you are not an erotic dancer.
More strip shows continue and after been fuel by our enthusiasm it was nonstop eroticism.  The strippers where smiling and even having a good time, the clients where spending money on tips, and we were just taking it all in to remember this erotic night at a Panama strip club.  We never imagine a strip club could be a great place to enjoy a night out. I would definitely advice you girls to take a night out and go see firsthand what striptease and erotic dancing is all about.  We have the best time experiencing what men like to do and exploring our own wild side.  Who knows, maybe next time we’ll take the stage!

A couple of weeks ago, I wrote in this blog about how to do a striptease for your man. One of my advices was to go to a strip club and learn from the pros. So, on Friday night I took my own advice and with a group of my closest girls, we went for the first time to see a strip show. It was not as easy as I thought to find a place where girls could get in. Lucky for us, at The Crazy Horse Panama women are always welcome! I think it’s the only place in Panama City, Panama, where we could get in without a man.

We arrived around 9pm. A nice gentleman walked us to our table with a large red couch and an excellent view of the stage. A sexy brunette dancer was already on stage ready to take off her top. We were astonished to see how easily she took her top off without even a blink. We settle down on the plush couch and ordered a round of margaritas and vodka tonics to begin our night of exotic dancers and strip shows. The drinks where excellent! I haven’t had a margarita as good as this one in a very long time. We ordered another round while the next stripper was announced by the DJ.

The stripper walks into the stage dress as a cowgirl, very a sexy but a bit serious. In fact, she didn’t smile once. She stars shaking her booty wildly while she gets closer to the pole. There, the stripper grabs with both hands the pole and she jumps on top and slowly spins her body down onto the floor. The crowd went wild and we moved closer to the stage. Another stripper gets on the stage, with a dollar bill a client was giving to the dancer. The girl laid down on the stage while the dancer gets on top of her, grinding her hips and picking up the bill with her teeth. We were impressed of her flexibility and her erotic acrobatic dance. How in the world could she dance in those impossibly high heels and not break her neck? It was even more impressive to dance around the glasses of some inconsiderate patrons who weren’t concerned on how dangerous can be for the stripper to slip or fall down.

Next dancer was a blond name Melisa. She was one of our favorite girls. Melisa is a petite cute blond girl with a sweet smile and a very sunny disposition. We specially like her cause of her eye contact with the public and the way she smiled to all of us, not just the guys. Her outfit was very sexy, some kind of jungle girl outfit looking perfect on her body. She danced very sensually and with lots of confidence. Melisa got the guys to come closer to see her, you could see the air got electrifying every time she performed. Also, she got us giving her tips while stripping! Melisa was really easy to talk with. She was not as intimidating as we thought she will be. We weren’t sure how the strippers will react with other women in their turf.

We were fascinated with the strippers. To us some seem very nice while other were plain snobby. Some of the other girls just sat around without any interaction with the clients, while others were friendly and walking around making small talk with the clients. They were pretty girls but not with huge boobies like we thought. I guess we have lots of expectation from what we see on TV. Strip clubs are not as bad as we thought either. Strippers were kind like regular girls. It was a very eye opening experience, because if they could get a man as turn on as they were, so we could to.

We were getting a bit bored, and with the nice music and a few more drinks, we were ready to turn the party up! …

If you want to know what we talked with Melissa about, come back to continue reading about our erotic night at a strip club! You don´t want to miss how the night got even hotter!